(i don't know if this is the proper forum for this, so if it's not, could someone move it to where it goes) I had something happen to me just now that I thought I would share with you guys, because it made me realize just how 'stuck' I am in my thinking. I got hungry, so I decided to warm up some corndogs for lunch. I opened up one of the packages (they're individually wrapped) on the 'wrong' side - that is, the side that doesn't have the stick. When I realized what i had done, I was fretting over the finger-burn I was going to get once the corndog was heated up in the microwave, and I was thinking about getting a plate (but then I'll have to wash it, ARGH!!!), to spill the corndog out of it's package, etc. I then opened up the other corn dog (on the proper side), and as I was putting the corndogs in the microwave, the properly opened corndog flew out of it's plastic wrapping and fell onto the microwave plate. "DAMNIT", I thought to myself, and grabbed the corndog and placed it back in it's wrapper - as soon as I did that, it hit me that I could take the other corndog out of it's wrapping and put it back into the wrapping WITH THE STICK PART ON THE OPEN END, so I wouldn't burn my fingers getting the corndog out of it's wrapping once it was warmed up. To say this simple event, warming up a CORNDOG, has made me realize just how stuck I am in my thinking is an understatement!!! I wanted to know if this has ever happened to you, and what it was, and how it has changed you. I know this sounds stupid, but this has honestly changed me - I really feel like something has 'clicked' in me. I am now going to try much harder to see solutions that aren't obvious to my problems.