Actually, Leon, I didn't mean you at all. I don't know if you're going to believe it, and I don't know if it matters, but I was referring to some others--perhaps I should have named names, but that would have seemed really like a personal attack, and I didn't want it to be like that. I'm sorry you took it this way. There are certainly some assholes here, and some people who are not assholes who sometimes act like assholes (that would include me). I felt like some people were acting a little "assholish" toward Misu. I didn't really think you were one of them (in fact, I think I remember defending you in the thread), but now you seem to be reacing like the "shoe fit." But I don't think so! I made that comment in Misu's blog because she wasn't accepting PM's, and because I wanted to reassure her and not let this site lose her. I thought that was important, and I stand by everything I said there. It was distinctly a comment to her--but I don't mind that you or anyone should read it. But, damn it, who's being the drama queen now? I've complained, both privately and publically, about what's been happening here. I've been working very hard (most recently) to be part of the solution, not part of the problem, because I do care. What the hell is going on? Is this becoming the sort of place where anyone who deviates from the standard line, or gets upset, or actually cares enough about what goes on here to be passionate, should just leave? I've been one of the biggest assholes here, from time to time, and I've tried to avoid being a "drama queen" about it, but that doesn't mean I don't understand the feeling of being fed up. I feel grateful to the people (there have been many--including you, Leon) who encouraged me when I was feeling fed up, and I wanted Misu to feel encouraged, too. I don't know. Did I really personally attack you? Or anyone? Maybe I did. I need to re-read that comment.