If you had the chance to go back into your past, and smack yourself upside the head to make a different choice in life than you did the first time, would you? And if so what would you say? For me, it's always been the one that got away. I was young and stupid, (synonymous terms, no doubt! ) and thought I knew what was best for me. The one that got away, is now a prominent Lawyer in NYC living in the upper west side. My ex-wife is living in a "double-wide" in AZ. (do the math!:nut: ) Although I highly doubt that I could really make such a change to my life knowing that I would not have my kids that I have now. I guess it boils down to the fact that things in life happen for a reason.